A MaN Falls In LoVe ThrU His EyEs, A WoMeN ThrU HeR eArs

"Perfect love is rare indeed -
for to be a lover will require that you continually have
the subtlety of the very wise,
the flexibility of the child,
the sensitivity of the artist,
the understanding of the philosopher,
the acceptance of the saint,
the tolerance of the scholar
and the fortitude of the certain."

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;
no disease that enough love will not heal;
no door that enough love will not open;
no gulf that enough love will not bridge;
no wall that enough love will not throw down;
no sin that enough love will not redeem...
It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble;
how hopeless the outlook;
how muddled the tangle;
how great the mistake.
A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.
If only you could love enough you would be
the happiest and most powerful being in the world...

THROUGH LOVE all that is bitter will be sweet
Through Love all that is copper will be gold.
Through Love all dregs will turn to purest wine
Through Love all pain will turn to medicine.
Through Love the dead will all become alive.
Through Love the king will turn into a slave!

"Men always want to be a woman's first love--
women like to be a man's last romance."
When one is in love,
one always begins by deceiving oneself,
and one always ends by deceiving others.
That is what the world calls a romance.

HoW To LOvE

Love is a strange thing.

It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt,

but in the end love is something most, if not all of us, will face.

While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (even yourself),

here is a general guide to loving.

• Say it.

When you say the words "I Love You"

do they carry it with them the desire to show someone you love them or do they carry it with them is it what you want to feel? And when you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person

• Empathize.

Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are; and realize how they could also love you back just as well.

• Love unconditionally.

If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.

• Expect nothing in return.

That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for loving's sake. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.

• Realize it can be lost.

If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love.

SPoRE PlaN

i WANT TO GO SINGAPORE!!!!!
it was supposed to be my plan at the 1st place..
who knows now all changed..
including the date and the timing...
and now..i kenot go..shit man!!!!
i wanna go i wan go i wan go..
I WANT GO!!!

I've BeEn TaGGeD!!

huh..suddenly tarak pasal kena tagged pulak.!

now hav to reveal things ppl might don't know to every1 d...
ewwyewwww...
it took me quite some times to reply this tagged..
reli busy with all those stupid assignments and reports..hate!!
ok...now....here i go...

according to lingzhou..
after being tagged..there are some rules to be followed..
the list of the rules are:

• Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog.
  
• Tell 7 unspectacular quirks on yours.
  
• Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blogs.
  
• Link the person who tagged you.
  
• Leave a comment for each blogger.

ehem...now...let's begin !!

7 FaCtS AboUt TeRuFliRtY513 tHat yOu MigHt DoN't KnoW

• CeCci is actually comes from my last name Sie ( just double up)
• im the youngest in my family..also known as the most naughty and playful one..haha..blame my parents and siblings for pampering me too much..
• i'm anti in doing houseworks.
• i Love sleeping..tat's y i like pinky piggy
• planning to reduce weight long time ago but failed to do so...keep on gaining weight..sigh
• love swimming although hav zero skills in swimming.. ( even failed to learn yf's doggy style..haha ) so...my sifu looi...u have to do something on it edi lolz...keke
• now im falling in love in mazda 6 besides BMW ( my Dream since i was small. )

7 UnSpEctAcuLaR QuiRkS

• pulling and touching my hair ( haha..din even realised after my friends told me )
• i'll only come out from the bathroom after 1 hour each time i bathe
• crazy in shopping..huh..every month over spend ( once i being clicked by a stuff..i cant sleep if never buy it )
• last minute gal..( even during exams!! )
• i do care on how people think of me.. ( jaga muka..muz get rid of this ! )
• seldom smile and will never talk to people that i'm not close to..But once i get to know u well and comfortable with you...you'll be wishing that we r strangers!! peace ^@^
• emotional..always get emo..

7 unLucKy PeOpLE TagGeD By TeRuFliRtY

xiaoli

LiNg YeE

LaY ChoOi

LiN FoOnG

BiChai

PeteR tOk

FisHy (Floatin Fish Muz be Tagged Twice )

PiAn NieK

well...after eat eat eat plan..
here..now..we come out with another game called pian Niek...
haha..actually this is looi and floatin fish's game...
so just try up lol...
haha..who knows..
the outcome's not bad..hehe,,..
still successful in cheatin da three guys...
keke....proven my brain still good in cheatin..
btw...its not cheat...
the moral of the game is ..
do tell the truth but not lies..
den u will beat the others...hoho..

so looi, floatin fish and dsl..
learned the tactics????
wakaka..