Saturday, August 22, 2009

eXam StreSS

Almost everyone feels nervous before an exam.

Butterflies in the stomach and worrying thoughts -

'Will I be able to answer the questions?' 'Have I done enough revision?' -

are indications of exam nerves that are probably familiar to all students.

In fact, a certain amount of nervous tension probably helps us perform to the best of our ability, producing a rush of adrenaline that helps us to feel alert and focused.

But too much anxiety can BLOCK thoughts, create a negative frame of mind, and lead to panic and potentially poor exam performance.

There are a number of things you can do to help manage exam anxiety and turn uncomfortable, panicky thoughts into more creative tension.

Anxiety management techniques

Thought-stopping technique
When we become anxious we begin to have negative thoughts ('I can't answer anything', 'I'm going to panic' etc). If this is happening, halt the spiralling thoughts by mentally shouting 'STOP!'. Or picture a road STOP sign, or traffic lights on red. Once you have literally stopped the thoughts, you can continue planning, or practise a relaxation technique.

Creating mild pain
Pain effectively overrides all other thoughts and impulses. Even very mild pain - such as lightly pressing your fingernails into your palm - can block feelings of anxiety. Some people find it helpful to place an elastic band around one wrist, and lightly twang it when they are becoming anxious.

Focusing
Looking out of the window, noticing the number of people with red hair, counting the number of desks in each row... all help to distract your attention from anxious thoughts and keep your mind busy. Mental games such as making words out of another word or title, using alphabetical lists etc are all good forms of distraction.

Bridging objects
It can help to carry or wear something with positive associations with another person or place. Touching this bridging object can be comforting in its own right, then allow yourself a few minutes to think about the person or situation which makes you feel good. This can have a really calming effect.

Self-talk
In exam anxiety or panic we often give ourselves negative messages, 'I can't do this' 'I'm going to fail' 'I'm useless'. Try to consciously replace these with positive, encouraging thoughts: 'This is just anxiety, it can't harm me', 'Relax, concentrate, it's going to be OK', 'I'm getting there, nearly over'.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

HapPy BiRthDaY FisH

before i begin.....
i shall turn back the time to 02.08.2009.

okay..now i can start...

HaPpy BirThDay BrainLess Fish..
Let me explain y i say so...

first,
have you ever see people who being so brainless by making himself stuck in crowd on his big day??
and when u ask him...
he is trying to pujuk himself by saying ' so what, i have thousands of people celebrating my birthday'. haha..funny??

secondly,
buying himself a birthday present worth RM799..
haha ...so richi man....
wanna know what he bought??

this is the gift that he bought for himself....

thirdly,
he told me that he regretted of buying this camera after 30minutes..
wakaka..really brainless..!!

anyhow...u did enjoyed your birthday in the crowd right??

Thursday, July 16, 2009

JCarD DaY

sales sales sales..
mad mad mad...
buy buy buy...
laugh laugh laugh....
spend spend spend .....
broke broke broke...
starve starve starve....
slim slim slim...
happy happy happy..!

Sunday, July 5, 2009

The WorST BiRthDAy On EArTh

had a great big disappointment on my birthday this year..
i wonder why.. why must i been treated like this..
no one can really understand my feeling on that moments..
its my birthday..
shouldnt i be happy on my day??
shouldnt i be treated like a princess?
y there's no laughters??
and y i cant see any happiness???
all that i had is just sadness.!!
crying for the whole day on your own birth day..
what's the feeling of it..??
i can really felt and understand right now...
one of my friend told me this..:
cecci , dont cry on your birthday...
if you cry on your day, you will be crying for your entire life..
then happiness will gone far from you..
be happy and make yourself smile..
enjoy your birthday as its your day..
the day where your mom, dad, and family cherish most ..
as they have you, the most precious gift from god..
yes.., its my birthday, the day where i'm born..
day where everyone smile happily to have me..
the day where everyone wants me to be happy...
a day where all my friends remember of me...
the day where all of them wishes me...
wishes me to be happy and delight..
but why..
i become the most stupidest gal on earth during my day..
letting tears dropping down my cheek..
no enjoyment, no happiness, no laughters..
NOTHING!!

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

DiSaPpOiNted

Reality is what you want to see
It shouldn’t make a difference to me
I put my trust in what you had to say
It didn’t make a difference anyway
I know you’ve tried your very best
And I’m so glad
Thank you so much
Disappointment is what you’ve made this
Expectations overrated
Disappointment is what you’ve made this
My ambition is so deflated
Reality is different for me
My eyes are opened wide enough to see
I’ve listened to your explainations why
The more you fail, the harder that I try
A case of mistaken opportunity
I guess I really got it wrong
Identity is insignificant
Or is it everything?



The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar which the ultimate fulfillment of that hope never entirely removes.
We must all suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret or disappointment.
Izzit true that we must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope???
Maturity is a bitter disappointment for which no remedy exists, unless laughter can be said to remedy anything.
People look at you and me to see what they are supposed to be. And, if we don't disappoint them, maybe, just maybe, they won't disappoint us.
And i believe that
Ones best success comes after their greatest disappointments.

BaCK

wow...it has been such a long long time till im back here again..
haha...super duper busy with my sem lol..
but no worries...now its all over...
i have my holiday right now...
and guess what..
im going back soon lol...
on thursday...
im back tasteless water....
working hard on the plan....
but it seems cant make it lolz....
aiskkk.
sad

Monday, April 20, 2009

DKNY Red Delicious..


hooray...!! one more perfume for me...




this red-coloured incarnate is the border variation of the original, boasting champagne accord, lychee, red raspberry and apple to temp the senses with a hint of sweetness.


DKNY introduces a second bite of temptation with a new, limited-edition scent. Aptly named DKNY Red Delicious, this sexy fragrance is a bit more daring, a bit more tantalizing - completely irresistible.

A glittering champagne accord shimmers with exotic lychee, while red raspberry flirtatiously mingles with crisp apple.
The heart intensifies with rich, velvety rose combined with lush notes of drenched violet petals, evolving to a rich, sensual blend of vanilla bean crushed with warm patchouli and a luminous amber note.
Capping off the sultry experience, a sensual skin accord mixes with raspberry for a soft kiss of sweetness.
Notes:Champagne Accord, Lychee, Red Raspberry, Apple, Rose, Vanilla Bean, Patchouli, Amber, Sensual Skin Accord, Raspberry.

Style:Tempting. Sexy. Delicious.